Mal Duane Coach

Archives for October 2011

Lesson – The Gift of Soul Notes

My lesson for today is to know that I am a child of God. I am chosen to do his work. Do not pay attention to external circumstances and everyone else’s fears. Try to comfort those who are frightened. Think about women who may need work. Maybe I could hire them?

Live Faithfully,
Mal Duane

Mal Duane is a certified Personal Life Coach with more than 23 years in recovery from alcoholism, who has overcome devastating life challenges using the steps in the Alpha Chick Process. Her personal mission is to help women excel in all areas of their lives from business to personal relationships and attract that which they most desire, as she has, through a connection to the divine power within. Her book Alpha Chick, Five Steps for Moving from Pain to Power is coming in February 2012.

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The Past Has No Power

“The past has no power over the present moment.”

~ Eckhart Tolle.

Why do we have such a difficult time letting go of the past? I can’t count how many days I have spent replaying conversations and scenarios over and over in my head from 20 years ago. I can’t change the outcome; I can’t create a new dialogue; it’s done! So why is this a common problem for so many people?  Is it our need to be right? Is it the little voice from the ego trying to give it a new spin and reaffirm you are an even bigger loser?

I spent almost twenty years of my life living in the past and feeling the pain of dreadful relationships stinging the walls of my heart all over again. I can assure you, I am not a masochistic person, but I could not let go of some of these old tapes, no matter how hard I tried. The past became my identity in the present.  After many years of reading and studying great masters of self –help and awakened consciousness, I finally figured this out: “The past has no power over the present moment.”

Now when I listen to women talk and they start describing something that happened six months ago that is creating awful pain for them today, I can reason with them intelligently that it has no bearing on who they are. At first they don’t get it but as they look at me with wide eyes like a deer in the headlights, it hits them. “The past has no power over the present moment.” They are not defined but that nasty divorce, or the huge blow up they had with a fellow employee. It has no bearing on who they are as a human being.  We are spiritual beings having a human experience. Our past mistakes have nothing to do with who we are today.

My past is littered with awful mistakes that I made. Many of them caused me sleepless nights.  Being able to put it all into perspective empowers me now. I understand my mistakes, I have learned from them. They are not my best buddies anymore; I don’t need to carry them around. I can honestly admit that I caused my own suffering for many years by holding on to old stuff that blocked my true sense of self and my reality.

How do you unclutter your present moment by releasing painful thoughts from the past?

I would love to hear from you.

Live Faithfully,
Mal Duane

Mal Duane is a certified Personal Life Coach with more than 23 years in recovery from alcoholism, who has overcome devastating life challenges using the steps in the Alpha Chick Process. Her personal mission is to help women excel in all areas of their lives from business to personal relationships and attract that which they most desire, as she has, through a connection to the divine power within. Her book Alpha Chick, Five Steps for Moving from Pain to Power is coming in February 2012.

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Believe in Me – The Gift of Soul Notes

This is a simple lesson I am teaching you.
It is really all you need to know. You have discovered the source of divine energy. What you experienced today shows you it is real. I know you became a little frightened. It is ok. You will get use to it. I want you to know that you are on the right path. Remember what I said about your clients. You do not need many just good ones who trust you. The comfort you bring has no price. Believe everything is perfect. You have been given a gift, now use it wisely. It is a joy working with you. See, I said it too.

Live Faithfully,
Mal Duane

Mal Duane is a certified Personal Life Coach with more than 23 years in recovery from alcoholism, who has overcome devastating life challenges using the steps in the Alpha Chick Process. Her personal mission is to help women excel in all areas of their lives from business to personal relationships and attract that which they most desire, as she has, through a connection to the divine power within. Her book Alpha Chick, Five Steps for Moving from Pain to Power is coming in February 2012.

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Creative Engergy – The Gift of Soul Notes

Do you feel the creative energy you asked for?

You can have this anytime you want. Just connect with me, lean on me to help you with this. You have been told this before. Alpha Chick is a spiritual project. You have lessons to teach. To do this well “you” must be very clear.

Could you teach what we do? You have been given many ideas. Play with them!

Live Faithfully,
Mal Duane

Mal Duane is a certified Personal Life Coach with more than 23 years in recovery from alcoholism, who has overcome devastating life challenges using the steps in the Alpha Chick Process. Her personal mission is to help women excel in all areas of their lives from business to personal relationships and attract that which they most desire, as she has, through a connection to the divine power within. Her book Alpha Chick, Five Steps for Moving from Pain to Power is coming in February 2012.

Be sure to subscribe to this blog for regular Alpha Chick updates and invitation to the Alpha Chick telesummit coming soon.

 

 

Doubt – The Gift of Soul Notes

Have faith in me. Know that all your prayers have been heard. Any fear can be healed by recognizing your faith. Put your hand on your heart when you are in doubt. I realize you must feel good to make others feel good. Know that I am with you today. All will be well.

Live Faithfully,
Mal Duane

Mal Duane is a certified Personal Life Coach with more than 23 years in recovery from alcoholism, who has overcome devastating life challenges using the steps in the Alpha Chick Process. Her personal mission is to help women excel in all areas of their lives from business to personal relationships and attract that which they most desire, as she has, through a connection to the divine power within. Her book Alpha Chick, Five Steps for Moving from Pain to Power is coming in February 2012.

Be sure to subscribe to this blog for regular Alpha Chick updates and invitation to the Alpha Chick telesummit coming soon