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What are you thankful for?

gratitudeToday I was on a call with my mentor Linda Joy, Aspire Magazine and Inspired Living Publisher. She said to me you are full of gratitude. I can hear it in your voice. You are so peaceful and present. You know what? She is right.

When I think back to last year at this time, I was so stressed out. I was in deep emotional pain pending divorce proceedings scheduled for early December.

Divorce is an energetically draining process no matter how hard you try to keep it balanced. Lawyers and the legal system make it confrontational and consuming. They drag it out which takes enormous wear and tear on the parties involved. I am so thankful to have this behind me which opens me up to a long list of things that I have on my gratitude list.

  1. My health is always my priority, without it I would have nothing. I am blessed to have perfect health as I am nine months shy of my 70th birthday.
  2. My home looks so beautiful now. I have painted and redecorated throughout. I did cleaning rituals with sage and blessings to remove negative energy. My home is my foundation. It is my happy place. There is nothing I love more than curling up with my dog on my bed and reading a good book or arranging beautiful flowers for my living room. I am so happy to live alone now.
  3. I am really focused and productive again. I’m loving my work more than ever. I have wonderful clients who really appreciate my services. I’m feeling deeply inspired to expand my message as I move forward to help women become financially sound. This was a very important lesson as I went through my divorce that a woman needs to be financially independent so she can advocate for herself. I don’t know how women survive the process without money.
  4. I am so happy in the present moment daily but also very excited about the future. I haven’t felt this optimistic in a long time.
  5. I have written about this before but it’s worth mentioning again. I have no fear. I not pulled into any negativity. I just look at everything without judgement. Definitely a saving grace during the recent presidential election.

The best part of this gratitude is that it comes from within. This is not based on anything outside of me. However, it does make me value all that I have and the beautiful friends that are part of my life.

This Thanksgiving, I am sending you a double serving of gratitude and I want you to know how much I love having you be part of my community.

Sending Big Love,
Mal

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Good morning Lovies,

Gratitude and GraceToday’s the day I’ve been dreaming about for months!

I am celebrating the official birth of my book “Inspiration for a Woman’s Soul: Opening to Gratitude and Grace” featuring my transformational story, “Broken Open”  and just released by bestselling publishing house, Inspired Living Publishing!

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Opening to Gratitude and Grace is the final book in the book in the best-selling life-changing trilogy that includes international best-selling phenomena, Inspiration for a Woman’s Soul: Cultivating Joy and Inspiration for a Woman’s Soul: Choosing Happiness.

Throughout the pages of Gratitude and Grace you’ll discover intimate, soul-powered narratives from thirty-eight women, including ME, who have shifted their perceptions, strengthened their hearts, and found ease in their daily lives through the power of gratitude.

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PRAISE for Gratitude and Grace is rolling in:

“I couldn’t put down Inspiration for a Woman’s Soul: Opening to Gratitude & Grace. I loved this book and I loved meeting all these courageous women. I laughed, I cried, I was deeply moved and profoundly inspired to bring even more grace and gratitude into my life.”
– Dr. Margaret Paul, co-creator of Inner Bonding, coauthor of Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By You? and Healing Your Aloneness, and author of Inner Bonding and Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By God?

“Gratitude is a superpower that, once fully embraced, is truly life changing. In Inspiration for a Woman’s Soul: Opening to Gratitude & Grace, Linda Joy has compiled a beautiful collection of moving stories from women who have experienced the abundant powers of gratitude and grace, as they share how their lives have been changed. This is an important book that will inspire true transformation.”
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As my publisher Linda Joy shares in the Introduction:

 “When we begin to live from a place of gratitude, we can begin to create real change in our lives. When we embrace gratitude in every moment, even when our current circumstances reflect something vastly different than what we desire, we invite grace into our lives.”

Sending you big love,
Mal Duane

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Start your Day Right with a Morning Practice

My meditation room
My meditation room

Wouldn’t it be great to start the day feeling peaceful, focused, and inspired? Every day I start my morning feeling centered and at peace.  My secret is having a morning practice.  Having a daily set of rituals helps you feel grounded in your body, mind, and soul.  Taking time to renew helps you be more creative, productive and energized throughout the day.

I have a meditation tray with all my favorite things that make me feel centered.  It has photographs of people I love, a statue of Buddha, a rosary, and other treasured items.  I am diligent of meditating every day.  I created a special meditation room in my home.  Sometimes I light a candle before I begin. There I can pray, meditate, and find my focus for the day.

My meditation try
My meditation try

Here’s some ideas for things to include in your morning practice.

1) Start the day with coffee, tea, or water

2) Exercise – This can be some stretches, yoga, or a morning walk with the dog.

3) Journal – Writing a few notes in your journal is a way to capture what’s on your mind.  You can start with a journal prompt, writing about the day to come, what you discovered in prayer, meditation, a daily focus… whatever comes to mind.  There are no rules.

4) Prayer/Meditation – Slow down and breath.  Take time to reconnect to the Divine within you.  Listen to the quiet whispers of your soul.  Ask for guidance.  You will be surprised how centered and focused you can be with just a few minutes of morning prayer to ground you.

5) Personal Development – Dedicate yourself to be a lifelong learner. Read a chapter from your favorite book.  Listen to a podcast.  Do a daily devotional.  Read a newsletter from industry experts.  I have a Library of Love I look to for daily growth.  In it are titles like “Simple Abundance” abd “Finding your Own North Star”.

6) Get inspired – Uplift your soul.  This can be reading an affirmation like “I am happy, healthy, and free”.  It may be a word like “courage” that you want to embrace for the day.  Perhaps you found an inspirational quote that sparked your interest. I like to spend 10 minutes internalizing my daily affirmation.

7) Be Grateful – The more your count your blessings, the more blessings you have to count.  Take time to recognize what’s wonderful in your world.  When you appreciate and take joy in what you have, the universe sends you more.

8) Dream and Visualize your Day – What would you like to have, be do? Take a few moments to close your eyes.  Imagine what you’d like to see happen.  Feel it in your heart.  When you feel excited and focus on what you want, it will attract it.  What you think about, you bring about. Create a dream map on the wall.  Have a dream chest with items and pictures that inspire you.  Start a dream folder with pictures about what you’d like to attract into your life.

9) Make a plan – What three things if you did them would make the biggest impact for you?  Tackle the biggest task first while you are sharp and full of energy.

So instead of turning on the computer, hopping into your email, and letting the day control you, setup a morning practice.  It gives you a beautiful, centered time just for yourself.  By easing into your day, you’ll find more joy and stamina to tackle the day. IMG_0059 2015-01-31 14.06.08

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Was that intentional?

IMG_1159Are you one of those people that wake up daily and allows circumstances to unfold and pull you all over the place? Well if the answer is yes, don’t feel too badly. Most people live their lives this way. They jump from one situation to the next without a plan or thoughtful response. I call this living life as a reactionary. I know because I was one. I use to feel like one of those whirling punching toys for kids.

Being a reactionary brings on high stress levels which can cause cortisol to spike in the body, increase heart rate and an assortment of other physical ailments. When you start your day without intention on how you would like things to be, you know what you get? You are living your life as a slave to old behaviors and thoughts. You end up expending twice as much energy only to accomplish half of what you could have done.

But when you set an intention on how your day is going to be, your experience is very different. You start your day waking up on time and focused on what you want to happen. Intention connects with your purpose. Instead of a day filled with random acts that have no meaningful connection, life becomes a progression of synchronistic activities that support your desires.

Intention gives you an element of control because you have a vision. You are putting out energetically what you desire. The Universe responds to your energy. Intentions have your soul behind them and are far more powerful than a written goal. You are living from your heart and not reacting from your head. When you set an intention daily you break the pattern of old habits that may no longer serve you. Instead you are taking deliberate actions that support your desires and not someone else’s.

Here are three steps for intentionally creating what you want in your life.

  1. Get a cute spiral notebook, a calendar with pull off pages or a journal. I use a calendar from Abraham Hicks that I just love. The page has two columns, things I intend to do today and how I intend to be today. On the other side are fabulous quotes from Abraham.
  2. Take 15 minutes before you go to sleep and write down your top three intentions for the next day and why you want them. As you sleep the intentions are sinking into your conscious mind.
  3. When you wake up review your intentions for 5 minutes and revise if needed.

You will absolutely be amazed at the ease and grace that shows up in your day as you work through your intentions. You will start to eliminate haphazard chaos, confusion and uncertainty.

Intention brings clarity which creates the results you want!

Intention is the magnet for attracting your desires!

My dear ones, we are all born with intention inside of us. Now go use it!

Wishing you an intentionally magnificent day!

 

Faithfully,

Mal

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Mal Duane is a Best Selling Author and Personal Life and Recovery Coach who has overcome life challenges using the steps in the Alpha Chick Process. Her personal mission is to help women excel in all areas of their lives from business to personal relationships. Mal has been featured with Fox 25 Boston Morning Show, CBS Radio, Aspire Magazine, Healthy Living and Metrowest Daily News. She has also been a featured guest on over one hundred Blogtalk Radio shows discussing recovery and personal transformation.

Mal’s book, Alpha Chick, Five Steps for Moving from Pain to Power, is a best selling book and is available on Amazon.com.

 

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What are you missing?

IMG_1127Today I was out walking my dog early in the morning. It is a beautiful New England Fall day. There is a slight chill in the air and the colorful leaves were falling to the ground like big pieces of confetti. My dog, Hannah (she is really my soul sister) wanted to stop and the smell flowers. She stood there sniffing different ones and was having the best time. Immediately I thought to myself, when was the last time I stopped to smell the flowers.

It made me realize how caught up we get with our electronics, our inbox or some other thing that pulls us away from our precious present moment. Time is flying by far too quickly. It seems like it was spring yesterday. Where did the summer go?

What was really startling for me was the realization that I have not been appreciating some of the small beautiful things around me each day. I have been living out of my head too much these past few months. Bless you Hannah for pulling me back to reality.

We continued our walk and I could feel my eyes tear up with gratitude for having Hannah and for the both of us being so healthy that we can be out and about enjoying the beautiful weather. This is something I have been taking for granted but I will not any more.

Sadly when I was walking around San Diego last week, I saw homeless women all over the place. It broke my heart because I couldn’t believe how many there were. I stopped and talked to several and gave them money for food. I asked them about their circumstances. Various things had happened financially that forced them to now live out of a shopping cart. They can survive there because of the mild climate. You shake your head in disbelief that women could be living like this in this day and age.

I realized how fortunate I am. I have a beautiful home, food on the table and nice clean clothes to wear.

The next time you are out walking about, pay attention to what is happening around you. Take it all in, breath in the fresh air. Do you notice some one who could use a helping hand? What do you see that makes you feel so grateful for all that you have? You will be amazed at what you have not been seeing.

Life is too short dear friend not to appreciate every minute of it. You can always get more stuff but you can’t buy more time. Make every day a special day. Oh and most important, touch someone’s heart with your loving kindness.

 

Faithfully,

Mal

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Mal Duane is a Best Selling Author and Personal Life and Recovery Coach who has overcome life challenges using the steps in the Alpha Chick Process. Her personal mission is to help women excel in all areas of their lives from business to personal relationships. Mal has been featured with Fox 25 Boston Morning Show, CBS Radio, Aspire Magazine, Healthy Living and Metrowest Daily News. She has also been a featured guest on over one hundred Blogtalk Radio shows discussing recovery and personal transformation.

Mal’s book, Alpha Chick, Five Steps for Moving from Pain to Power, is a best selling book and is available on Amazon.com.

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